Paul devotes twice as many words to telling husbands to love their wives as tobtelling wives to submit to their husbands. How should a man love his wife? 1) He should be willing to sacrifice everything for her. 2) He should make her well-being his primary importance. 3) He should care for her just as he cares for his own body. No wife needs to fear submitting to a man who treats her this way. And I hope and pray that my daughters use this as an example to judge a man against when they are considering marriage.